Salam.
Today, or rather yesterday (3.3.2011), was a date remembered by everyone of us in the family. It's the day of our parents wedding anniversary. And, this year, marked their 42nd years of togetherness and encounting.
42 years. Now, that is pure commitment. To be able to stay in a relationship that long, takes real commitment, strong will power, a conscious heart and sensible too that eventhough your other half is not that perfect somebody you wished for; he/she will have to do. (let's face it, they say it takes after 5 years in a marriage then you'll truly discover the wholesome truth about your partner and more often than not- not that pretty image(s).
I have yet to come to that. BUT, my wed anniversary, is due in just a few days. Come, next monday (7/3/2011), i'll be in my fourth year of marriage with mr hubby. So, it will take me another year to pass that first iniatial testing phase.
What's amazing to me, is how couples of years of marriage can stand each other for so long? Oh, please don't give me that cliche reason such as "because they LOVE each other".
Because, let's face it. There will come a time in your marriage, then LOVE does tire you down, you get all weary about anything lovey-dovey themes, and it's purely technical or needs to have that someone as your life partner (at least this is my ill-feeling about this contract of love whenever i have spousely quarrel :p )
OK. enough raving. I actually need to get my focus to finishing my presentation that is due in less than 12 hours...unfortunately, no pictures for today's event except a cake-cutting video that i reckon would be too personal for the world wide web to see.
In sum, to mom and dad, "Mak dan Ayah, Selamat Ulangtahun Perkahwinan yang ke 42 tahun. Semoga terus berbahgia selamanya. Amin" Love you both to bits..
Thursday, March 3, 2011
Tuesday, March 1, 2011
Eddy Adika in memory..again.:((
salam.
As you probably notice (by the date of my entries) that i fortnightly update the entries of this blog. Guess that's how it is with someone having a couple of names in the blogsphere + lazybone like me do=seldom updates.
Anyhow, as i was blog-hopping, updating, touching-up here and there (macam la lawa sangat) and yes for this part i blame it largely on the effin slow internet connections in my housing area and yes again blame it all on streamyx because of the recent upgrading to unifi.
SOOOO, i was 'cleaning' my sidebars here, and i accidently clicked to one blog name that i havent clicked for a loooongggggggggggggggggg time. And yes, the owner in titled in this entry of mine. EDDY ADIKA. ALLAHYARHAM EDDY ADIKA.
if you noticed, i did write about his passing previously and posted my final picture with him.
POINT i was making: I make a heart-wrenching blog visit to Eddy's and found his third final entry was filled with words i could associate easily to- with his appreciation dedicated to my name and the same picture i have posted here with him, he had that one too!
IF ONLY i was more aware of his updates back then...:((
AL-FATIHAH EDDY ADIKA. you will always be remembered.
As you probably notice (by the date of my entries) that i fortnightly update the entries of this blog. Guess that's how it is with someone having a couple of names in the blogsphere + lazybone like me do=seldom updates.
Anyhow, as i was blog-hopping, updating, touching-up here and there (macam la lawa sangat) and yes for this part i blame it largely on the effin slow internet connections in my housing area and yes again blame it all on streamyx because of the recent upgrading to unifi.
SOOOO, i was 'cleaning' my sidebars here, and i accidently clicked to one blog name that i havent clicked for a loooongggggggggggggggggg time. And yes, the owner in titled in this entry of mine. EDDY ADIKA. ALLAHYARHAM EDDY ADIKA.
if you noticed, i did write about his passing previously and posted my final picture with him.
POINT i was making: I make a heart-wrenching blog visit to Eddy's and found his third final entry was filled with words i could associate easily to- with his appreciation dedicated to my name and the same picture i have posted here with him, he had that one too!
IF ONLY i was more aware of his updates back then...:((
AL-FATIHAH EDDY ADIKA. you will always be remembered.
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
Let's make more money
I really hate it when you have worked you way through, wrote a mountain with sincere thoughts and originality and suddenly when you have just clicked the "ENTER" button, all that work just kepoofffff! disappeared! Damn it..so aku malas nak pk n tulis berbunga2 lagi..click je la link bawah ni kalau percaya, kalau tak percaya,boleh jugak click bagi percaya apa kata? :)
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Wednesday, January 12, 2011
It's A New Year Again
salam..wooooooooooo how ive been slacking off to make any updates on this blog of mine..but i guess it is still not too late to wish (myself) a Happy New Year..2011. But, but...I am not all optimistic for what this year has to offer for me, especially regarding family issues and I..Hence, the modification of this site= removed the banner with all joyous me & hubby wed photos and the striking flowery pinky background..:((
2. I dont even know where to start. 2011 seems to bring so many sad stories even at the start of it, and this doesnt mean well..
3. Something dear, very dear to my heart, and to the rest of my family will be gone in matter of months all thanks to a particular person who have "showered" us with her "kindness" for the past 5 years, only to be wanting this one thing dearest to us all back as bargain!
4. Oh how all of us have been decieved by that wretch person, who talks with a fashion of hollier-than-thou, but come to think of what she's doing to us now, what is holly about it? Whats so good about it? Wheres the generosity?
5. Oh how sad it is to think that after all this years, dearest atashii no ryoushin have to face all this...in their crucial golden years..years of which they should be spending wrinkles free, lazying in the house with laughters of rugrats running wild in the weekends while everybody who is dearest to them all- would spoil them every once in awhile.
6. Oh to that snake person, you are indeed more vicious than a snake, to call yourself with a standards and act all pious, all that talk about sincerity when in fact you're doing the same of what a Yahudi bad scheming would have done-utter oppression, heartless act of putting people off to the streets, literally!
7. Oh you that heartless witch, you ought not to be called with that honorary title in front of your glittering name that have become the fate of you because you were just damn lucky to be born of privilege and on a silver platter...In truth, you're bloodsucking creature with eyes blinded for all monetary lust and a mind of getting things the way you want it.
8. Theres no way around this mess, except a miracle. By Allah O Mighty, for only He can alter this spiraling down fate it seems - Give us the hope , show us the way to fight back not physically, but emotionally-stronger to face the demons with hijab roaming wild on earth with skins so white & flawless, clad in expensive cottons & worldly materials, whilst ever so proudly quoting Your Name as the foundation of her deeds to to so-called do good to people in need, only to bash them out in later years or asking them to sell their soul in return.
9. I solemnly swear, from here on..I hate you DF and I hope Allah will pay you back equally, that you would in return in this life suffer the same amount of pain youve inflicted onto others that have trusted you, given them all their admiration & love, but you screwed it because of mere $$$ albeit you so proudly declare you have abundance of..but yet, you ripped the poor, tricked them cold to get your way.
10. There's God no other than Allah and He will definitely show you what is so deserving of you if you're not careful. Amin.
2. I dont even know where to start. 2011 seems to bring so many sad stories even at the start of it, and this doesnt mean well..
3. Something dear, very dear to my heart, and to the rest of my family will be gone in matter of months all thanks to a particular person who have "showered" us with her "kindness" for the past 5 years, only to be wanting this one thing dearest to us all back as bargain!
4. Oh how all of us have been decieved by that wretch person, who talks with a fashion of hollier-than-thou, but come to think of what she's doing to us now, what is holly about it? Whats so good about it? Wheres the generosity?
5. Oh how sad it is to think that after all this years, dearest atashii no ryoushin have to face all this...in their crucial golden years..years of which they should be spending wrinkles free, lazying in the house with laughters of rugrats running wild in the weekends while everybody who is dearest to them all- would spoil them every once in awhile.
6. Oh to that snake person, you are indeed more vicious than a snake, to call yourself with a standards and act all pious, all that talk about sincerity when in fact you're doing the same of what a Yahudi bad scheming would have done-utter oppression, heartless act of putting people off to the streets, literally!
7. Oh you that heartless witch, you ought not to be called with that honorary title in front of your glittering name that have become the fate of you because you were just damn lucky to be born of privilege and on a silver platter...In truth, you're bloodsucking creature with eyes blinded for all monetary lust and a mind of getting things the way you want it.
8. Theres no way around this mess, except a miracle. By Allah O Mighty, for only He can alter this spiraling down fate it seems - Give us the hope , show us the way to fight back not physically, but emotionally-stronger to face the demons with hijab roaming wild on earth with skins so white & flawless, clad in expensive cottons & worldly materials, whilst ever so proudly quoting Your Name as the foundation of her deeds to to so-called do good to people in need, only to bash them out in later years or asking them to sell their soul in return.
9. I solemnly swear, from here on..I hate you DF and I hope Allah will pay you back equally, that you would in return in this life suffer the same amount of pain youve inflicted onto others that have trusted you, given them all their admiration & love, but you screwed it because of mere $$$ albeit you so proudly declare you have abundance of..but yet, you ripped the poor, tricked them cold to get your way.
10. There's God no other than Allah and He will definitely show you what is so deserving of you if you're not careful. Amin.
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